Sunday, September 19, 2010

One is Silver and the Other's Gold


We call it 'doing life together'.
Like minded families are hard to come by.
I remember an old Girl Scout song we used to sing. 'Make new friends but keep the old, one is silver and the other's gold.' I love the amazing blessing of finding new friends. And then discovering we've shared some of the same friends all along.







And then we discover our kids love eachother and even our husbands 'click'.

This to me is really beyond a blessing. When both spouses like both spouses. My parents told me years ago how unique this is. What a treasure. Our men don't often have the time or energy or even the inclination to put into 'relationships'. I know, surprising! If they are relational at all, they gave at the office all day and save some for the family when they get home. If they aren't relational, then 'giving' at the office completely drained them and even the relational bit at home can be too much. They used up their 500 words compared to our 5000 words we women use a day.

I'm beyond grateful for new friends who build us up, challenge us, are so generous and when I think of them, I smile. When I think of them, I want to be with them, be like them, be more like Christ. Isn't that the best kind of friend?

3 comments:

Lisa Taylor said...

Great Post Susan! I too, love the amazing blessing of finding new friends! And when there is connection with the kids...AND the spouses! I think it's at the heart of what every girl is looking for in a friendship!

Audra Krell said...

I totally remember that song, in fact I will sing it for you next time we are together. Bet you can't wait! Ha! You are blessed indeed...

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